tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6746087734566800095.post7069915787062315786..comments2023-10-01T08:56:40.304-07:00Comments on Words From the Daughter of a Narcissist: My Mother's Fixation on When I "Go Out"Sugarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09960700337978385353noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6746087734566800095.post-45244972055925243972015-04-06T15:13:37.111-07:002015-04-06T15:13:37.111-07:00FYI:- http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-condition...FYI:- http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/personality-disorders/basics/symptoms/con-20030111KARMA MRA MGTOWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03888644579813460993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6746087734566800095.post-73988352012575717072015-04-06T15:11:52.967-07:002015-04-06T15:11:52.967-07:00NPD seems to be almost the norm for many western w...NPD seems to be almost the norm for many western women, - almost - no wonder so many guys have stopped dating!KARMA MRA MGTOWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03888644579813460993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6746087734566800095.post-26846853539575765272015-04-06T15:09:56.898-07:002015-04-06T15:09:56.898-07:00Son get your masters, get job and get the hell out...Son get your masters, get job and get the hell out!KARMA MRA MGTOWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03888644579813460993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6746087734566800095.post-59179073302959386982014-01-04T21:09:24.988-08:002014-01-04T21:09:24.988-08:00Wow....this forum is just what I needed. My mthr ...Wow....this forum is just what I needed. My mthr does the exact sAmerican thing uf she sees me or my sister getting dressed to leave the house. My sister recently had a baby, and my mthr seems to be a little jealous. Sh talks to my sister like shes a teen mom without a clue !! Itsc getting worse...smhAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01558548212862096452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6746087734566800095.post-31446372338327214452013-05-20T15:10:48.456-07:002013-05-20T15:10:48.456-07:00Oh and heres my phonecalls from today alone:
10:2...Oh and heres my phonecalls from today alone:<br /><br />10:29 2mins<br />11:07 ignored<br />12:19 3 mins (had to break news to her that my car isnt working)<br />16:46 ignored<br />16:46 ignored<br />17:09 ignored<br />17:11 called her (plucked up enough courage after 3 text messages). She explained how bad I am for something something so I put the phone under a pillow and let her shout. After 10 mins the signal cut out<br />17:22 she called back to add more about how bad I was. I told her shes hurting me and if she wanted to get hold of me she could email me. (5 mins).<br /><br />Then I got 2x texts saying how i NEED (caps is NB) to meet her to discuss how to fix the car, she apparently has a plan.<br /><br />...story of our lives I guess?Jasonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01271329245345044672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6746087734566800095.post-63205462655030401712013-05-20T15:05:21.821-07:002013-05-20T15:05:21.821-07:00My gosh.. My mom asks the same questions (I'm ...My gosh.. My mom asks the same questions (I'm a 23 year old male doing a masters degree). She adds to that:<br />-Who are you going out with?<br />-Why are you going?<br />-What are their contact details?<br />-What time are you coming back? [to which is added]<br />--Dont drink and drive.<br />--Dont come home that late, what can you honestly be doing out that late?<br />-etc...<br /><br />But she controls me with money because she pays for everything so I need to be indebted to her for some reason? <br /><br />I sometimes wonder how it was possible that she gained custody of my brother and I when my parents divorced when I was 5. If my dad had won I wouldnt have been as messed up now as I am :/<br /><br />She also tends to find my online profiles (facebook/twitter/instagram) and use that to keep tabs on me. I try keep those on private but she figures things out.<br /><br />I just realised now that I lost a friend because of her. I probably lost more friends because of her but theres one in particular who left me as a friend after I came out clean and said that I had treated my mom badly (not knowing what monster she actually was).Jasonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01271329245345044672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6746087734566800095.post-39917117316041572722012-09-28T06:42:42.886-07:002012-09-28T06:42:42.886-07:00Hi, your mother seems to also be Borderline. Their...Hi, your mother seems to also be Borderline. Their biggest deepest fear is abandonment...but they conceal it b/c they fear vulnerability. Whatever it is, it's so unfair.<br />Good luck!Trishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07023642047160256083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6746087734566800095.post-69465928948799281262012-09-03T06:12:33.635-07:002012-09-03T06:12:33.635-07:00That sounds so true! Except that my mom started to...That sounds so true! Except that my mom started to think that my boyfriend is drug user and some other crazy things. And those questions where am I going and when I'm coming home.. argh!<br />When lived at home she came to woke me up on school mornings even though she knew that I had the alarm clock to wake me up.<br /><br />I can tell you (and I bet it is this) that more than normal mother caring, it is hard to explain what it is, but is absolutely more than that!<br /><br />Thank God it is over for me now. Feels amazing that you can still live with her, as for me, I haven't been in terms with my mom since she got nuts about my boyfriend and started to disturb my mental health by those actions.<br /><br />I'm happy that you have realized what kind of mom she really is.<br /><br />Take care!Mariellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10237019877188559073noreply@blogger.com